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AMANDA MOK: Are you
done with the list?

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AUDIENCE: Yep.

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AMANDA MOK: OK, so was
controlling male or female?

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Would
someone like to say why,

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why yous said mutual or male?

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AUDIENCE: It's neutral
because both guys and girls

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can be controlling, because
it depends on relationships.

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It's more-- it's going
to be, also, the girl

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that can be controlling
as well as the guy.

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And yeah.

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AMANDA MOK: OK,
[INAUDIBLE] for male?

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Who wants to say guys
are controlling over--

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: What about the guys
having control [INAUDIBLE]??

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AUDIENCE: Girls
will just walk out.

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AMANDA MOK: OK.

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AUDIENCE: The only way
a girl's controlling me

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is if she's pregnant with me.

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[LAUGHTER]

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AMANDA MOK: Anybody
cares to [INAUDIBLE]??

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[LAUGHTER]

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AUDIENCE: What's that
supposed to mean?

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AMANDA MOK: OK, how
are they approachable?

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Approachable is
not necessarily submissive.

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[INAUDIBLE]

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Andrew.

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OK, how about honest?

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Anyone
want to say why you

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chose particularly each term?

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AUDIENCE: Because girls, like,
they talk behind your back.

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And boys, I don't
want them to do it.

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AMANDA MOK: Yeah.

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AUDIENCE: I think the dishonesty
is usually motivated by greed.

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And greed can be found
in either gender.

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So, honestly, it's
pretty mutual.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: How about competent?

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AUDIENCE: Female.

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AUDIENCE: Female.

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AUDIENCE: Female.

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AMANDA MOK: [INAUDIBLE]
females, that's

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along the female section.

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Why do you say female?

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Are guys necessarily
less competent?

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AUDIENCE: No.

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It just wasn't neutral.

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Females are more prepared
when they do something.

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It's true.

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AMANDA MOK: OK.

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Agree to disagree?

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Yeah?

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OK.

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How about inspiring?

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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[LAUGHTER]

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AMANDA MOK: OK, so this group
decidd on male, at least

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on the--

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AUDIENCE: Because
a lot of inspiring

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males from like, the
media, in one sense.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: How about moms?

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Are moms inspiring?

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Are
moms male or female?

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: How
about intelligent?

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AMANDA MOK: OK.

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Fair-minded.

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AMANDA MOK: Male?

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Males are more fairminded,
you guys think?

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AUDIENCE: Yeah.

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AMANDA MOK: [INAUDIBLE]
voice just cracked.

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Broadminded?

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AUDIENCE: Neutral.

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AMANDA MOK: Courageous?

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AMANDA MOK: If they want to say
a reason why, just speak up.

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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AMANDA MOK: Male?

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Because?

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AUDIENCE: It's not like you
want to say I'm a coward.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Louder.

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AUDIENCE: Women,
they [INAUDIBLE]..

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AMANDA MOK: How about
straightforward?

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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AMANDA MOK: Males are
definitely more straightforward.

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AUDIENCE: Yeah,
girls hold grudges.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AUDIENCE: Girls, they
won't go up to you.

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And they'll be like--

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AMANDA MOK: Girls are
more straightforward?

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AUDIENCE: No.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Hold up.

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This was a group agreement.

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Why do you think girls
are more straightforward?

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AUDIENCE: We never said that.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Andrew,
what do you think?

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AUDIENCE: What do I think?

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AMANDA MOK: Is it
mutual, male, or female?

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AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE].

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AMANDA MOK: What about Gen?

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AUDIENCE: I don't know.

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AMANDA MOK: I don't know.

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I don't know.

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OK.

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AUDIENCE: So neither of them
are straightforward then.

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AMANDA MOK: I guess.

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How about creative?

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: OK, [INAUDIBLE]?

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How about dependable?

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AUDIENCE: Guys.

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AUDIENCE: Girls.

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AUDIENCE: Females.

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AUDIENCE: Guys.

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AMANDA MOK: Females?

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Reasons?

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AUDIENCE: No, I said mutual.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AUDIENCE: --and tell them
to give it back to you,

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and expecting to give it back.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AUDIENCE: Women are--
being dependable, matters

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if you're responsible or not.

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So [INAUDIBLE] how responsible
you are [INAUDIBLE]..

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AMANDA MOK: OK.

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How about decisive?

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AUDIENCE: Neutral.

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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AMANDA MOK: Males?

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Males?

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Females?

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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AUDIENCE: Neutral.

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AMANDA MOK: Neutral?

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Enthusiastic.

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AUDIENCE: Females.

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AMANDA MOK: Females.

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Agree?

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Disagree?

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You have individual opinions?

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OK.

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Unselfish?

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AUDIENCE: Neutral.

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AMANDA MOK: OK.

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Loyal?

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AUDIENCE: Neutral.

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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AMANDA MOK: Male,
female, neutral?

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Confident?

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AUDIENCE: Male.

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AMANDA MOK: Male?

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You are like, boxing male.

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How about tactful?

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AUDIENCE: Female.

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AMANDA MOK: Females
are more tactful.

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Any agree?

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Disagree?

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Males are straightforward,
females are tactful.

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AUDIENCE: Huh?

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AUDIENCE: Yeah.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Committed.

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AUDIENCE: Mutual.

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AUDIENCE: Female.

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AMANDA MOK: Female?

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Why female?

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Because I'm outnumbered.

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I'm just kidding.

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I'm just kidding.

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AUDIENCE: I don't know.

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From what I've seen, at least,
men are quicker to give up.

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AMANDA MOK: OK.

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AUDIENCE: Which in a lot of
cases, might be a good thing.

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But--

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[LAUGHTER]

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AUDIENCE: Women
know when to quit.

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AMANDA MOK: Yeah, that's true.

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I agree.

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Humble?

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AUDIENCE: Neutral.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AUDIENCE: We said female,
but certain females.

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Can be conceited.

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AMANDA MOK: I know.

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Also, males can
also be conceited.

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AUDIENCE: They're meek, but
they could be conceited.

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AMANDA MOK: OK, flexible.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Who said male?

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You guys said male?

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AUDIENCE: Then let's see
you do back hand springs.

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[LAUGHTER]

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AUDIENCE: What now?

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AMANDA MOK: OK, why did
people say males for flexible?

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AUDIENCE: Because
we're [INAUDIBLE] here

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until the last minute.

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AMANDA MOK: Huh?

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Personality-wise-- [INAUDIBLE].

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[LAUGHTER]

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AUDIENCE: Fantasy.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: OK, any other
reasons why other than just

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males are flexible?

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Who said female?

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Yeah?

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Reasons why?

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AUDIENCE: Well, it's we have
got enough room when to bend.

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And, well, we do that because
in a relationship with a husband

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and wife, the wife also got
to know whent to bend to.

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[INAUDIBLE] between the two.

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AUDIENCE: Women are
better at marriage.

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AMANDA MOK: We need
to watch our parents.

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I am married.

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How about-- who said neutral?

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Someone did.

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Yes, neutral?

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Why do you claim neutral?

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AUDIENCE: Well, both of them--

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if it's a guy and a girl, if
they make plans and one of them

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can make it, they can reschedule
it and same, viceversa.

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So one of them have to
know what the two like.

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AMANDA MOK: So it's not
necessarily one or the other,

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but both people can do it?

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OK.

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How about compassionate?

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AUDIENCE: Female.

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AMANDA MOK:
Overwhelmingly female.

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Self-discipline.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

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AMANDA MOK: Neutral?

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Male?

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Female?

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Anyone want to say why?

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AUDIENCE: Personality and
physically self-disciplined.

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AMANDA MOK: These are
all leadership qualities.

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So personalities.

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OK, assertive.

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You guys look all assertive.

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AUDIENCE: Neutral.

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[INTERPOSING VOICES]

266
00:09:45,667 --> 00:09:46,500
AMANDA MOK: Neutral?

267
00:09:46,500 --> 00:09:50,330
OK, so I think the only one
that the whole class agreed on

268
00:09:50,330 --> 00:09:52,170
was compassionate with female.

269
00:09:52,170 --> 00:09:56,590
Otherwise-- no, which group
decided that it wasn't female

270
00:09:56,590 --> 00:09:57,292
or was neutral?

271
00:09:57,292 --> 00:09:58,375
AUDIENCE: We said neutral.

272
00:09:58,375 --> 00:09:59,320
AMANDA MOK: You
guys said neutral?

273
00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:00,260
OK.

274
00:10:00,260 --> 00:10:01,400
AUDIENCE: Not a single one.

275
00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:03,280
AMANDA MOK: I take
my words back.

276
00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,390
So the whole class
couldn't agree

277
00:10:05,390 --> 00:10:08,061
on any of these belonging to
male or female or neutral,

278
00:10:08,061 --> 00:10:08,560
right?

279
00:10:08,560 --> 00:10:11,430
So what does that say about
these kind of characteristics?

280
00:10:11,430 --> 00:10:14,726
You can't stereotype women,
men, or anything, right?

281
00:10:14,726 --> 00:10:16,820
You can't exactly
say [INAUDIBLE]??

282
00:10:16,820 --> 00:10:17,320
Yeah?

283
00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,136
AUDIENCE: I would
say the [INAUDIBLE]..

284
00:10:20,136 --> 00:10:20,940
AMANDA MOK: Bias?

285
00:10:20,940 --> 00:10:21,870
Yeah.

286
00:10:21,870 --> 00:10:23,680
But the fact that we
couldn't agree still

287
00:10:23,680 --> 00:10:26,571
means that stereotypes
don't apply.

288
00:10:26,571 --> 00:10:27,820
Yeah?

289
00:10:27,820 --> 00:10:28,320
OK.

290
00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:33,044
How about let's go back to what
you guys thought of each other.

291
00:10:33,044 --> 00:10:34,034
I hate to say it.

292
00:10:34,034 --> 00:10:35,534
But everyone's
pretty negative here.

293
00:10:38,392 --> 00:10:41,490
Does anyone want to comment
on particularly anything?

294
00:10:41,490 --> 00:10:45,300
I left out-- what was it--

295
00:10:45,300 --> 00:10:47,360
do bad imitations
of Fergie songs.

296
00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:51,220
But other than that--

297
00:10:51,220 --> 00:10:53,460
AUDIENCE: Wow, wow.

298
00:10:53,460 --> 00:10:55,710
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

299
00:10:56,366 --> 00:10:58,032
AMANDA MOK: Does
anyone want to comment?

300
00:10:58,032 --> 00:11:00,417
AUDIENCE: That's
very, very biased.

301
00:11:00,417 --> 00:11:01,750
AMANDA MOK: We're pretty biased?

302
00:11:01,750 --> 00:11:02,260
OK.

303
00:11:02,260 --> 00:11:05,102
What about these
common things though.

304
00:11:05,102 --> 00:11:06,810
Everyone agreed that
girls are emotional,

305
00:11:06,810 --> 00:11:08,740
that girls are good
at cooking, although I

306
00:11:08,740 --> 00:11:11,314
would disagree on that.

307
00:11:11,314 --> 00:11:14,716
[LAUGHTER]

308
00:11:14,716 --> 00:11:16,660
AMANDA MOK: Who can't cook.

309
00:11:16,660 --> 00:11:17,954
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

310
00:11:17,954 --> 00:11:19,620
AMANDA MOK: OK, and
girls are nurturing,

311
00:11:19,620 --> 00:11:23,675
whereas we have guys, we agree,
have bad handwriting and are

312
00:11:23,675 --> 00:11:25,384
[INAUDIBLE].

313
00:11:25,384 --> 00:11:27,590
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

314
00:11:31,728 --> 00:11:34,220
AMANDA MOK: Sometimes,
my hand [INAUDIBLE]..

315
00:11:34,220 --> 00:11:36,866
Anyone want to add anything?

316
00:11:36,866 --> 00:11:38,664
Does everyone agree with these?

317
00:11:38,664 --> 00:11:40,080
AUDIENCE: Guys are
usually bigger?

318
00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:41,900
AMANDA MOK: They're bigger?

319
00:11:41,900 --> 00:11:43,690
You guys agree?

320
00:11:43,690 --> 00:11:45,200
Do the guys agree?

321
00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,790
Are guys bigger?

322
00:11:47,790 --> 00:11:50,660
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

323
00:11:57,142 --> 00:11:58,225
AMANDA MOK: Anything else?

324
00:11:58,225 --> 00:12:00,692
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

325
00:12:02,690 --> 00:12:04,529
AMANDA MOK: OK,
random conversation

326
00:12:04,529 --> 00:12:07,080
going on in the corner.

327
00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:10,856
What do girls think about what
the guys wrote about them?

328
00:12:10,856 --> 00:12:12,835
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

329
00:12:27,830 --> 00:12:30,850
AMANDA MOK: That was a low blow.

330
00:12:30,850 --> 00:12:33,960
Yeah, by the way, I know
where you live, all of you.

331
00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:35,256
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

332
00:12:35,256 --> 00:12:37,525
AUDIENCE: What about driving?

333
00:12:37,525 --> 00:12:38,495
Driving and sports.

334
00:12:38,495 --> 00:12:40,870
AUDIENCE: Well, there are good
women athletes, and like--

335
00:12:40,870 --> 00:12:43,275
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

336
00:12:44,750 --> 00:12:46,205
AUDIENCE: I can drive.

337
00:12:50,085 --> 00:12:54,335
AMANDA MOK: So do the girls like
what the guys think of them?

338
00:12:54,335 --> 00:12:55,774
AUDIENCE: No.

339
00:12:55,774 --> 00:12:57,440
AMANDA MOK: Just a
question to the guys,

340
00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:58,731
do you really think girls are--

341
00:12:58,731 --> 00:13:02,660
you think this negatively
of the girl gender?

342
00:13:02,660 --> 00:13:03,540
AUDIENCE: Yes.

343
00:13:03,540 --> 00:13:06,760
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

344
00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:10,120
AMANDA MOK: I kept
my eyes on you.

345
00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:13,143
No, but seriously.

346
00:13:13,143 --> 00:13:14,851
AUDIENCE: You have to
think about the age

347
00:13:14,851 --> 00:13:16,130
differences of our group.

348
00:13:16,130 --> 00:13:16,770
AMANDA MOK: OK.

349
00:13:16,770 --> 00:13:18,186
AUDIENCE: The
youngest to oldest--

350
00:13:18,186 --> 00:13:19,120
AUDIENCE: Exactly.

351
00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,220
AMANDA MOK: But as a
general, do the guys

352
00:13:22,220 --> 00:13:25,094
agree this negatively of girls?

353
00:13:25,094 --> 00:13:25,760
How about girls?

354
00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,190
[INAUDIBLE] girls
can say any better.

355
00:13:28,190 --> 00:13:29,695
I mean, [INAUDIBLE].

356
00:13:33,336 --> 00:13:36,752
Do girls really think
this negatively of guys?

357
00:13:36,752 --> 00:13:40,168
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

358
00:13:40,168 --> 00:13:42,620
AUDIENCE: Some guys are like
that, but not all of them.

359
00:13:42,620 --> 00:13:43,900
AMANDA MOK: OK.

360
00:13:43,900 --> 00:13:46,430
I'd say in general, people
don't think well of themselves.

361
00:13:46,430 --> 00:13:50,298
This whole board is
negative, except the guys.

362
00:13:50,298 --> 00:13:52,290
[INAUDIBLE]

363
00:13:52,290 --> 00:13:53,286
We're cool.

364
00:13:53,286 --> 00:13:54,282
We're smart.

365
00:13:57,460 --> 00:13:59,455
AUDIENCE: We were truthful.

366
00:13:59,455 --> 00:14:00,330
AMANDA MOK: Truthful?

367
00:14:00,330 --> 00:14:02,960
I guess truthful would have
to live on both sides, right?

368
00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:04,760
We're looking only
at negative sides.

369
00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:05,937
So-- I don't know--

370
00:14:05,937 --> 00:14:07,770
just something to think
about, what you guys

371
00:14:07,770 --> 00:14:09,960
think of each other.

372
00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,070
OK.

373
00:14:12,070 --> 00:14:18,220
Any more comment to say
about this glorious board

374
00:14:18,220 --> 00:14:22,890
of nice, warm, fuzzy feelings?

375
00:14:22,890 --> 00:14:23,390
No?

376
00:14:23,390 --> 00:14:25,389
AUDIENCE: We are very
negative about each other.

377
00:14:25,389 --> 00:14:27,160
AUDIENCE: And about
ourselves too.

378
00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:28,980
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

379
00:14:30,055 --> 00:14:31,540
AUDIENCE: Sort of.

380
00:14:31,540 --> 00:14:35,500
The boys were pretty
judgemental of themselves.

381
00:14:35,500 --> 00:14:38,470
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

382
00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,410
AMANDA MOK: Is there a
good thing on this side?

383
00:14:44,410 --> 00:14:46,422
I guess these [INAUDIBLE].

384
00:14:49,338 --> 00:14:53,046
OK, patient and focused.

385
00:14:53,046 --> 00:14:54,290
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

386
00:14:54,290 --> 00:14:55,968
AMANDA MOK: Smart, that's true.

387
00:14:55,968 --> 00:14:58,956
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

388
00:14:58,956 --> 00:15:01,972
AMANDA MOK: OK,
back to big group.

389
00:15:01,972 --> 00:15:03,680
OK, before you take
them off, does anyone

390
00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,599
want to guess what yours are?

391
00:15:05,599 --> 00:15:06,890
You guys already guessed yours.

392
00:15:06,890 --> 00:15:11,330
OK, what about this table?

393
00:15:11,330 --> 00:15:12,653
Did you guys guess it?

394
00:15:12,653 --> 00:15:13,236
AUDIENCE: Yep.

395
00:15:13,236 --> 00:15:13,930
Yeah.

396
00:15:13,930 --> 00:15:15,132
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

397
00:15:15,132 --> 00:15:16,173
AUDIENCE: --already done.

398
00:15:16,173 --> 00:15:17,080
AUDIENCE: I knew it.

399
00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,046
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

400
00:15:23,950 --> 00:15:26,690
AMANDA MOK: Shh.

401
00:15:26,690 --> 00:15:27,190
Shh.

402
00:15:31,940 --> 00:15:33,020
How about Andrew's group.

403
00:15:33,020 --> 00:15:34,720
Did anyone guess them
before they took it off?

404
00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:35,910
AUDIENCE: They already did.

405
00:15:35,910 --> 00:15:37,430
AMANDA MOK: They already
took them off and guessed?

406
00:15:37,430 --> 00:15:38,432
AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE].

407
00:15:38,432 --> 00:15:39,890
AMANDA MOK: Yeah,
everyone guesses.

408
00:15:39,890 --> 00:15:40,765
AUDIENCE: No, no, no.

409
00:15:40,765 --> 00:15:41,460
Just now.

410
00:15:41,460 --> 00:15:42,520
AMANDA MOK: Oh, OK.

411
00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,464
Did anyone get them right?

412
00:15:44,464 --> 00:15:44,964
Nice.

413
00:15:44,964 --> 00:15:45,464
Nice.

414
00:15:45,464 --> 00:15:47,960
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

415
00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,101
AUDIENCE: Yeah,
I'm just guessing.

416
00:15:50,101 --> 00:15:51,600
AMANDA MOK: So how
did it feel like?

417
00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,808
I mean, I guess [INAUDIBLE]
already on your forehead.

418
00:15:53,808 --> 00:15:57,076
But how does it feel like to
be treated, like whatever?

419
00:15:57,076 --> 00:16:00,537
It felt good to be
questioned all the time?

420
00:16:00,537 --> 00:16:01,914
AUDIENCE: Yeah.

421
00:16:01,914 --> 00:16:02,832
AMANDA MOK: OK.

422
00:16:02,832 --> 00:16:04,605
Any-- it feels bad?

423
00:16:04,605 --> 00:16:05,230
AUDIENCE: Yeah.

424
00:16:05,230 --> 00:16:06,070
AMANDA MOK: Someone was
whispering while you

425
00:16:06,070 --> 00:16:06,760
were talking all the time?

426
00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:07,676
AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE].

427
00:16:07,676 --> 00:16:10,910
AMANDA MOK: OK,
any other thoughts?

428
00:16:10,910 --> 00:16:12,700
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

429
00:16:14,497 --> 00:16:16,029
AUDIENCE: That one's just great.

430
00:16:16,029 --> 00:16:17,570
AMANDA MOK: I thought
it was fitting.

431
00:16:17,570 --> 00:16:19,400
It was completely random.

432
00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,210
AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE].

433
00:16:21,210 --> 00:16:22,960
AUDIENCE: We had a
good time [INAUDIBLE]..

434
00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:24,720
I'd like to say that.

435
00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,896
AMANDA MOK: Oh, so
[INAUDIBLE] are yelled at.

436
00:16:26,896 --> 00:16:29,452
[INAUDIBLE] yelled at.

437
00:16:29,452 --> 00:16:30,660
AUDIENCE: It was frustrating.

438
00:16:30,660 --> 00:16:30,950
AMANDA MOK: Frustrating.

439
00:16:30,950 --> 00:16:32,658
AUDIENCE: Being
interrupted all the time.

440
00:16:32,658 --> 00:16:34,560
AMANDA MOK: Yeah,
I understand that.

441
00:16:37,380 --> 00:16:38,320
AUDIENCE: Ha.

442
00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:39,617
[INTERPOSING VOICES]

443
00:16:39,617 --> 00:16:41,450
AMANDA MOK: While Chris
decides to interrupt

444
00:16:41,450 --> 00:16:42,821
every other sentence I make.

445
00:16:42,821 --> 00:16:45,487
How did it feel like to be
treating people like that

446
00:16:45,487 --> 00:16:49,629
though, not to be the receiver,
but like to be actively-- yeah?

447
00:16:49,629 --> 00:16:52,170
AUDIENCE: Well, its kind of mean
to be constantly questioning

448
00:16:52,170 --> 00:16:53,602
and disagree with people.

449
00:16:53,602 --> 00:16:54,310
AMANDA MOK: Yeah?

450
00:16:54,310 --> 00:16:56,395
No, it's fun.

451
00:16:56,395 --> 00:16:58,020
I don't know what
you're talking about.

452
00:17:00,702 --> 00:17:01,350
Anyone else?

453
00:17:04,069 --> 00:17:06,839
Does anyone normally--
do you notice

454
00:17:06,839 --> 00:17:08,304
that you do this randomly?

455
00:17:08,304 --> 00:17:10,800
AUDIENCE: I [INAUDIBLE].

456
00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,456
AMANDA MOK: Andrew,
what do you do randomly?

457
00:17:13,456 --> 00:17:14,440
AUDIENCE: I usually--

458
00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,065
AMANDA MOK: Whisper while people
are talking, interrupt people?

459
00:17:17,065 --> 00:17:17,674
Sort of?

460
00:17:17,674 --> 00:17:22,950
AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE]
something I shouldn't do.

461
00:17:22,950 --> 00:17:25,111
It's like a habit.

462
00:17:25,111 --> 00:17:26,819
AMANDA MOK: Did this
activity make anyone

463
00:17:26,819 --> 00:17:29,710
aware of how they treat
people in conversations.

464
00:17:29,710 --> 00:17:31,080
AUDIENCE: Oh, I know.

465
00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:32,300
AMANDA MOK: You know.

466
00:17:32,300 --> 00:17:33,591
You're just like, I don't care.

467
00:17:33,591 --> 00:17:36,780
I'm going to do it anyways.

468
00:17:36,780 --> 00:17:39,318
How about Kenny's table?

469
00:17:39,318 --> 00:17:40,800
AUDIENCE: What?

470
00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,938
AMANDA MOK: How do you guys
deal with the [INAUDIBLE]..

471
00:17:43,938 --> 00:17:45,342
AUDIENCE: It was good and bad.

472
00:17:45,342 --> 00:17:47,044
AMANDA MOK: Good and bad?

473
00:17:47,044 --> 00:17:47,835
Any other thoughts?

474
00:17:52,650 --> 00:17:54,706
[HUMMING]

475
00:17:54,706 --> 00:17:56,113
AUDIENCE: I can't even hear you.

476
00:18:00,340 --> 00:18:03,580
AUDIENCE: Also,
this is [INAUDIBLE]..

477
00:18:03,580 --> 00:18:04,330
AUDIENCE: So yeah.

478
00:18:04,330 --> 00:18:06,853
AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE].

479
00:18:06,853 --> 00:18:08,610
AMANDA MOK: Any other thoughts?

480
00:18:08,610 --> 00:18:10,440
What did you guys
think of this activity?

481
00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:11,106
Did you like it?

482
00:18:11,106 --> 00:18:12,504
Did you not like it?

483
00:18:12,504 --> 00:18:13,430
AUDIENCE: It didn't
work out too well.

484
00:18:13,430 --> 00:18:13,825
AMANDA MOK: It's kind of dumb.

485
00:18:13,825 --> 00:18:15,743
AUDIENCE: I think if we
like, [INAUDIBLE],, it

486
00:18:15,743 --> 00:18:16,460
would have worked out.

487
00:18:16,460 --> 00:18:16,890
AMANDA MOK: Hm?

488
00:18:16,890 --> 00:18:18,180
AUDIENCE: That everyone
like, dirft around--

489
00:18:18,180 --> 00:18:20,266
AUDIENCE: I think it
worked well in our group.

490
00:18:20,266 --> 00:18:22,640
AMANDA MOK: You guys, how did
it work well in your group?

491
00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,681
AUDIENCE: Because we didn't
have people guessing.

492
00:18:24,681 --> 00:18:26,320
AMANDA MOK: Oh,
wait, who's group

493
00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:29,130
didn't guess until I
told you guys to guess?

494
00:18:29,130 --> 00:18:30,740
Oh, Ann.

495
00:18:30,740 --> 00:18:32,300
OK.

496
00:18:32,300 --> 00:18:36,360
How did-- shh, guys.

497
00:18:36,360 --> 00:18:36,860
[INAUDIBLE]?

498
00:18:36,860 --> 00:18:37,790
AUDIENCE: I didn't know we
weren't supposed to guess.

499
00:18:37,790 --> 00:18:39,230
AMANDA MOK: Huh?

500
00:18:39,230 --> 00:18:39,860
AUDIENCE: I didn't know we
weren't supposed to guess.

501
00:18:39,860 --> 00:18:40,980
AMANDA MOK: Oh, OK.

502
00:18:40,980 --> 00:18:41,957
I mentioned it.

503
00:18:41,957 --> 00:18:43,040
Maybe I didn't mention it.

504
00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:44,170
Anyways--

505
00:18:44,170 --> 00:18:47,480
AUDIENCE: No, I think that
by the time we got the cards,

506
00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,320
our conversation
was already done.

507
00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:50,706
So we were just sitting around.

508
00:18:50,706 --> 00:18:51,330
AMANDA MOK: OK.

509
00:18:51,330 --> 00:18:53,840
How did Andrew's table
work conversation-wise.

510
00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:55,820
You guys were the
only ones that didn't

511
00:18:55,820 --> 00:18:58,720
know what was on your
foreheads, or maybe you

512
00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:00,255
guessed by looking
at other groups.

513
00:19:00,255 --> 00:19:02,720
AUDIENCE: Well, we didn't even
pay attention [INAUDIBLE]..

514
00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:03,720
We have out own little--

515
00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:04,500
AMANDA MOK: OK.

516
00:19:04,500 --> 00:19:06,440
Conversation.

517
00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:07,880
How did the conversation run?

518
00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:11,757
Did people get
frustrated, whatnot?

519
00:19:11,757 --> 00:19:13,340
AUDIENCE: I think
people [INAUDIBLE]..

520
00:19:13,340 --> 00:19:17,120
AMANDA MOK: People [INAUDIBLE]
you treat people normally.

521
00:19:17,120 --> 00:19:20,760
Did you guys follow the
instructions on the foreheads?

522
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,345
AUDIENCE: I did.

523
00:19:23,345 --> 00:19:25,100
AUDIENCE: It was hard to--

524
00:19:25,100 --> 00:19:27,380
I'm not very good
at [INAUDIBLE]..

525
00:19:30,304 --> 00:19:30,845
I just can't.

526
00:19:30,845 --> 00:19:33,815
AUDIENCE: I was
confused [INAUDIBLE]..

527
00:19:33,815 --> 00:19:35,795
AMANDA MOK: Confusion
[INAUDIBLE]..

528
00:19:35,795 --> 00:19:38,265
AUDIENCE: You know, playing
around lately, I was just like,

529
00:19:38,265 --> 00:19:38,765
what?

530
00:19:38,765 --> 00:19:42,230
[LAUGHTER]

531
00:19:44,705 --> 00:19:46,755
AUDIENCE: Like, nothing
you're talking about.

532
00:19:46,755 --> 00:19:48,380
AMANDA MOK: Do you
guys know people who

533
00:19:48,380 --> 00:19:49,694
actually treat people this way?

534
00:19:49,694 --> 00:19:50,610
Treat others this way?

535
00:19:50,610 --> 00:19:51,620
AUDIENCE: Yeah.

536
00:19:51,620 --> 00:19:54,310
AMANDA MOK: What do
you guys do about it?

537
00:19:54,310 --> 00:19:56,660
Bring it up to their
attention, or just

538
00:19:56,660 --> 00:19:58,420
ignore it within yourself?

539
00:19:58,420 --> 00:19:59,869
AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE].

540
00:20:03,806 --> 00:20:05,930
AUDIENCE: I'm just waiting
for the world to change.

541
00:20:05,930 --> 00:20:08,180
AMANDA MOK: (SINGING) Waiting
for the world to change.

542
00:20:12,114 --> 00:20:12,613
Yeah?

543
00:20:12,613 --> 00:20:13,196
AUDIENCE: Mhm.

544
00:20:13,196 --> 00:20:14,630
AMANDA MOK: OK.