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写情书
Courtesy of Feng Lan.
几种找对象的方法
Courtesy of Min Wan.
写情书
Feng Lan
我对这个问题并不很熟悉。就我自身经验而论,应该是在看中了一个人之后,给他/她写信,也就是我们过去说的情书。如果对方不回信, 那么这事就谈不成了。如果对方有正面反应,那么这事就有戏了。
几种找对象的方法
Min Wan 你们可千万不要以为中国的年轻人找对象还都是遵循父母之命,媒妁之言。父母之命,有,媒妁之言也有,但是跟很早以前的根本不一样。一般来说,年轻人找对象有几种方法,一,双方的父母都认识,是老朋友,他们让孩子交朋友,而他们的孩子也互相喜欢;二,朋友介绍(媒妁之言);三,自己认识,比方说,在同学中找对象的人不少;也有的在特定的场合看中了对象,然后就主动出击。我想年轻人通过婚姻介绍所找对象的人很少,至少我认识的人里没有。